Lupus isolates people. Chronic illness isolates people. After the diagnosis, you are forever changed. You realize very quickly that the people who live in the land of the healthy have no idea what it is like to live in the land of the chronically ill. We have learned a new language and culture that they cannot understand unless they come to this land.
I gave a Lupus 101 presentation today. I watched the faces of the newly diagnosed as they learned about what lupus can do to a person. I watched the faces of the lupus veterans, nodding their heads. The presentation was heavy on the science. The questions afterwards were on social and emotional. I let the veterans answer.
One thing that every newly diagnosed person mentioned was that they had felt alone and isolated. They have no one in their lives who understands what it is like to have lupus. For the first time, they were in a room full of people who do understand. That's what support groups are about. We do not have to go it alone!
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